This Is What You Say When a Customer Cusses At You


I cuss. A lot. But never have I dared to cuss at a person in a customer service role. And I get rather upset about lousy customer service and still manage to talk nicely to people about any issues I encounter. Some people cuss, and yell and make threats when they are angry about customer service. This is not okay.

You have to draw the line on unacceptable behavior with customers, just as I hope you do in your interpersonal relationships when people disrespect you. You get the behavior you tolerate. So, don’t tolerate profane language.

Diplomatic comebacks to cussing set you up as professional and assertive, and they help you get the respect you deserve.

Here are seven comebacks for the customer who cusses at you. These responses are professional and will get the job done. Continue reading “This Is What You Say When a Customer Cusses At You”

3 Fantastic Things About Our Online Customer Service Training

Here’s what our current customers tell us are the three most fantastic things about our customer service eLearning.

We show our three best features in this short video.

1. Custom website and branding.

When your employees log in to their training, it feels like they are taking the training within your company because we give you a unique URL and upload your logo.


2. Our training is interactive.

John Hancock said,

“The thing that struck me about Myra Golden’s eLearning modules was how engaging they were.  You are asked to actively participate in each module, and there are action items you take away. Our participants comment about how the time flies when they are taking them – another indication of their engagement!”  Kristin Augusta | Sr. Operations Manager, Shared Services Training & Development, John Hancock 

3. Reporting is super easy.

With just one click you can pull up progress reports, so you know when your employees have logged in, if they completed the training, and how they are progressing through the courses.


Take a look around, read some reviews and sample some modules.

Three Steps to Being Confident and Prepared When Talking to Employees About a Problem

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This is you. Confident and Prepared.

So, my 14-year son old got contact lenses for the first time last week. He’s struggling to get the contacts in. Every morning Warren comes downstairs to my bathroom so I can help him with his technique.

More than once he’s said, “I freakin’ hate contacts!” He even asked me to hold his upper eyelid up and steady for him. I explained, “I could hold your eyelid for you, but that won’t help you. You have to be able to do this yourself.”

Watching him struggle has been difficult. So, last night I had the idea to coach my son using the same three-step method I tell my clients to use when they have to help an employee through a problem or to give someone constructive feedback. This technique is what I call Know, Feel, Do.

What is it I want Warren to Know about contact insertion? How do I want him to Feel? And, what do I want him to Do?

Know. I want my son to Know that it takes time to get a technique down and to feel comfortable, this is normal for all new contact lens wearers. I want my son to know what approach works for me.

Feel. I want my son to feel grateful that he doesn’t have to wear glasses, thankful that I was willing to pay $418 out of pocket for a year supply of daily lenses. I want my son to feel that he can do this!

Do. I want my son to stop the negative self-talk, be patient, listen to my instruction and to be able to insert his contacts by this time next week and to be able to do it quickly.

God is good! Using my focused and positive Know, Feel, Do, this morning Warren got his contacts in in less than 10 minutes. Yesterday it took around 30 minutes, so this is a big deal.

You can use Know, Feel, Do to coach employees on a process, attitude problem or any performance issue. Here’s precisely how to apply Know, Feel, Do to your talks with employees.

Continue reading “Three Steps to Being Confident and Prepared When Talking to Employees About a Problem”

Four of The Best Books I Read in 2017

My Favorite Books of 2017

Note: This is a rare post that is not about customer service. Scroll on down if my book list doesn’t interest you. My ego won’t be bruised. 🙂 

I read voraciously, on planes, in between conference calls, while onions saute and in the spring and summer, on my patio. I read hardbacks, love nestling up with my Kindle, and I also listen to a lot of Audible books. During my holiday vacation, I did little more than reading, and oh, how I loved that! In fact, I had to slip a bookmark in my current read just to write this post for you.

As a Happy New Year gift to you, I’m sharing four of my favorite books from 2017. Maybe this short list will inspire someone. I’d love to hear some of your favorite books from 2017, or to just hear about what you’re reading right now. Share with me some great reads! Here’s my list. Continue reading “Four of The Best Books I Read in 2017”

Your Best Professional Year Yet!



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